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swimsuit try on by jess greenash
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In all sincerity, if I discover that a source of insecurities and problems for me, is in reality a source of pleasure and passion for someone, I think that I would be happy and encouraged.

We are not talking about perverts, pedos etc ... here in this forum I think that a good 80% of the male users are good persons that simply love women and are sexually excited by that feature of the female body ... like others are excited by breast, long legs etc


Then of course I can understand a little of awkwardness in the case of a very shy and reserved girl, when she discovers this.
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I have found that the last thing anyone with body insecurities wants is attention of any kind to the source insecurity itself. In fact, praise without trusted reinforcement can be worse than criticism. 

Many women get 'attention' from men for having large breasts and hate it if someone makes a comment about them.  This type of sexual attention is seen as demeaning and makes many people uncomfortable, even depressed. She basically walked into a room where a bunch of random wankers are having lewd conversions about her vulva, her disgust is understandable and there is nothing positive about it. 

I believe that if/when she truly begins to love her vulva she may gain a tolerance for this place and maybe even join the conversion and tell us her point of view.
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(05-09-2021, 03:28 PM)BBking73 Wrote: I have found that the last thing anyone with body insecurities wants is attention of any kind to the source insecurity itself. In fact, praise without trusted reinforcement can be worse than criticism. 

Many women get 'attention' from men for having large breasts and hate it if someone makes a comment about them.  This type of sexual attention is seen as demeaning and makes many people uncomfortable, even depressed. She basically walked into a room where a bunch of random wankers are having lewd conversions about her vulva, her disgust is understandable and there is nothing positive about it. 

I believe that if/when she truly begins to love her vulva she may gain a tolerance for this place and maybe even join the conversion and tell us her point of view.

Couldn’t agree more.
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(05-09-2021, 03:28 PM)BBking73 Wrote: I believe that if/when she truly begins to love her vulva she may gain a tolerance for this place and maybe even join the conversion and tell us her point of view.


Well, as you write, it must start by her.
Like in the case of many others of our fears/awkwardness: to solve them, it's 90% a matter of "me" .



IMHO, if I would be a girl with large labia and being shy/embarassed about that, and one of the reasons it's fearing bad comments by men when I take off my clothes, if instead I find out and understand that many males find large labia a very attractive and even sensual thing, I think that I would gain a little of my self esteem and I would be less afraid and shy.

Sure, that's only A PART of the problem, but it would be at least a good start to solve it.
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(05-09-2021, 03:28 PM)BBking73 Wrote: She basically walked into a room where a bunch of random wankers are having lewd conversions about her vulva, her disgust is understandable and there is nothing positive about it. 

Sorry, but if I check this entire thread, I can't find any lewd comment ... instead, I find a couple of comments where users compliment the girl for her courage to speak so openly about a delicate topic like this, and the my comment of 4 days ago, where I wrote simply that she's a wonderful girl, and not just for her beautiful physical "feature".
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